Family Reunions Strengthen Bonds
There are many aspects to living a long and happy life, one in particular is the relationship of the sacred family.
As formerly stated here, family is not just a group of related individuals but also the household they inhabit. Oikogenia aka family, is one of the most important aspects of longevity. The relationship of the people in the household or family is a deep rooted bond which transcends time and space. The relationships, when developed with proper communication can be very healthy.
You may be surprised at what these generational connections teach you about yourself and your ways. We each carry a piece of the past and we must embrace it to learn and grow, yet stay strong and vibrant.
The secret sauce, in my opinion, to keep the family alive is TIME.
Although it makes sense to prioritize your nuclear family, make the time to attend that long distant relative’s wedding or baptism. Carve the time out of your regular schedule to reunite and rekindle a parent’s relationship.
When my husband and I got married in the 90’s, my mother encouraged us to reach out to Brian’s grandfather’s nephew during our trip to Greece. Tasso and his wife were not only extremely hospitable and welcoming to us, they also created the opportunity to learn about the family tree. We still stay in touch to this day.
Another viable way to stay connected is with the planning of a family reunion.
This one day or three day gathering will help you keep the legacy alive while nurturing traditions.
PLAN A FAMILY REUNION:
Form a committee or ask one person to take the reins of organizing the event.
Send a questionnaire about availability - which weekend is most desirable
Select a meaningful location, maybe where one of the grandparents or parents were born
Set a budget
Plan activities
Send an invitation
Plan for all ages
Take pictures and ask everyone to bring an old family picture to share and tell a story.
Enjoy large meals and share good food, olive oil and conversation.
Gather names, emails and phone numbers to stay in touch.
These 10 suggestions are not hard, they are merely a starting point to your creative execution. As you create your lasting and meaningful event, remember to be flexible, patient and open minded.
In the end, the love of a family is the greatest gift and it is free.
Wishing you well as you plan your next or first, small or large family reunion.
Sending you filakia kisses-
Ola Kala,
Kiki